Dada Atas vs Dada Bawahan Dikit

Ada yang uda tau maksud dari judul di atas? =)

Tadi saat perjalanan pulang saya tiba-tiba terinspirasi judul tersebut. Lalu dengan membulatkan tekad dan perut, saya mencoba nulis walopun akhir-akhir ini jadi males nulis (maklum bukan talent nulis ngga kayak seseorang yang saya kenal --> Virgi)

 

Manusia jaman sekarang suka membedakan dada atas dan dada bawahan dikit. Wanita dengan dada atas lebih identik dengan menarik, menggoda, sangat sex upil(sex appeal bacanya kalo ngga bisa bahasa Finlandia =p).

Menggoda kan? Nah, kalo pria gimana?
Pria juga punya kok tapi di dada bawahan dikit.

Apakah anda wanita bisa bilang mereka (pria) menarik, menggoda dan sangat sex upil tadi? Itulah nasib pria dewasa yang punya dada bawahan dikit yang besar... =p

Tapi kalo pria tersebut masih kecil dan belum dewasa alias masih balita, kalo dada bawahan dikitnya besar maka wanita bilangnya ihh imut, lucuuuu, nggemesiinnnn

Yah, emang bener juga ada orang yang bilang roda itu berputar, dulu waktu kecil kita dibilang lucu imut menarik nggemesin tapi kalo uda gede jika dada bawahan dikit kita gede kita dibilang ngga menarik, ditolak sana sini... 

Karena itu banyak pria yang sekarang yang olahraga untuk mengempeskan dada bawahan dikit tersebut karena malu takut ngga dapet pasangan, ato ada juga yang pengen dipuji wanita, dan banyak lagi alesannya. Tapi ada juga pria yang pede dengan dada bawahan dikitnya yang besar seperti Jack Black.

Menurut saya pribadi sih yang penting karakter dan pribadi kita. Biarin dada bawahan dikit kita besar tapi usahakan hidup sehat, tetap berolahraga dan nikmatin hidup. Jodoh di tangan Tuhan. Yang penting kita persiapkan diri dan karakter kita agar diri kita siap jika Tuhan besok-besok memberikan pasangan kepada kita.

Opinion does not Matter

Tidak peduli apa yang orang lain pikirkan tentang Anda.
Yang penting adalah apa yang Anda pikirkan tentang Anda.

Kita membuang begitu banyak energi mengkhawatirkan pendapat orang lain, ingin disukai, butuh untuk disenangkan.
Tapi kepemimpinan dan penguasaan diri sendiri jauh lebih baik daripada Anda diterima oleh orang lain atau tidak, karena jiwa kepemimpinan membuat Anda akan diterima oleh orang lain.

Hargai dirimu sendiri, asalkan Anda hidup dengan nilai yang Anda tetapkan untuk mengejar impian Anda. Jadi untuk apa Anda khawatir dengan yang orang lain pikirkan atau mengatakan tentang Anda?

Sukses bukanlah ajang mencari popularitas.
Dan pada akhirnya, apa yang paling penting adalah apakah Anda menjadi diri Anda sendiri.

10 Guidelines from GOD

Effective immediately, please be aware that there are changes YOU need to make in YOUR life. These changes need to be completed in order that I may fulfill My promises to you to grant you peace, joy and happiness in this life. I apologize for any inconvenience, but after all that I am doing, this seems very little to ask of you. Please,follow these 10 guidelines.

1. QUIT WORRYING:
Life has dealt you a blow and all you do is sit
and worry. Have you forgotten that I am here
to take all your burdens and carry them for you?
Or ! ! do yo U just enjoy fretting over every little
thing that comes your way?

2. PUT IT ON THE LIST:
Something needs done or taken care of. Put it
on the list. No, not YOUR list. Put it on MY
to-do-list. Let ME be the one to take care
of the problem. I can't help you until you turn
it over to Me. And although My to-do-list
is long, I am after all... God. I can take care
of anything you put into My hands. In fact,
if the truth were ever really known, I take
care of a lot of things for you that you never
even realize.

3. TRUST ME:
Once you've given your burdens to Me,
quit trying to take them back. Trust in
Me. Have the faith that I will take care of
all! ! your needs, your problems and your trials.
Problems with the kids? Put them on My list.
Problem with finances? Put it on My list.
Problems with your emotional roller coaster?
For My sake, put it on My list. I want to
help you. All you have to do is ask.

4. LEAVE IT ALONE:
Don't wake up one morning and say,
"Well, I'm feeling much stronger now, I think
I can handle it from here." Why do you think
you are feeling stronger now? It's simple.
You gave Me your burdens and I'm taking
care of them. I also renew your strength
and cover you in my peace. Don't you
know that if I give you these problems back,
you will be right back where you started?
Leave them with Me and forget about
them. Just let Me do my job.

5. TALK TO ME:
I want you to forget a lot of things.
Forget what was making you crazy.
Forget the worry and the fretting because
you know I'm in control. But there's one
thing I pray you never forget. Please, don't
forget to talk to Me - OFTEN! I love YOU!
I want to hear your voice. I want you to
include Me in on the things going on in your life.
I want to hear you talk about your friends
and family. Prayer is simply you having
a conversation with Me. I want to be your
dearest friend.

6. HAVE FAITH:
I see a lot of things from up here that you
can't see from where you are. Have faith in
Me that I know what I'm doing. Trust Me;
you wouldn't want the view from My eyes.
I will continue to care for you, watch over you,
and meet! ! your needs. You only have to trust Me.
Although I have a much bigger task than you,
it seems as if you have so much trouble just
doing your simple part. How hard can trust be?

7. SHARE:
You were taught to share when you were
only two years old. When did you forget?
That rule still applies. Share with those who are
less fortunate than you. Share your joy with
those who need encouragement. Share your
laughter with those who haven't heard any in
such a long time. Share your tears with those
who have forgotten how to cry. Share your faith
with those who have none.

8. BE PATIENT:
I managed to fix it so in just one lifetime
you could have so many diverse experi ences.
You grow from a child to an adult, have children,
change jobs many times, learn many trades,
travel to so many places, meet thousands
of people, and experience so much. How can
you be so impatient then when it takes Me
a little longer than you expect to handle
something on My to-do-list? Trust in My
timing, for My timing is perfect. Just
because I created the entire universe in
only six days, everyone thinks I should
always rush, rush, rush.

9. BE KIND:
Be kind to others, for I love them just
as much as I love you. They may not dress
like you, or talk like you, or live the same way
you do, but I still love you all. Please try
to get along, for My sake. I created each
of you different in some way. It would be
too boring if you were all identical.
Please, know I! ! love each of your differences.

10. LOVE YOURSELF:
As much as I love you, how can you not
love yourself? You were created by me for
one reason only -- to be loved, and to love
in return. I am a God of Love. Love Me.
Love your neighbors. But also love yourself.
It makes My heart ache when I see you
so angry with yourself when things go
wrong. You are very precious to me.
Don't ever forget that.

The Greatest Things in Life

Earl Nightingale (March 12, 1921 – March 25, 1989)

Earl Nightingale was an American motivational speaker and author wrote down some definitions called, "The Greatest Things."
During our careers, we've reviewed them often to help us remember just what's important and what isn't.

Here they are - The Greatest Things:

• The best day,
today.

• The greatest puzzle,
life.

• The best policy,
honesty.

• The greatest thought,
God.

• The greatest mystery,
death.

• The best work,
field what you like.

• The greatest mistake,
giving up.

• The most ridiculous asset,
pride.

• The greatest need,
common sense.

• The most dangerous person,
a liar.

• The best advice,
use good manners.

• The wisest short-cut,
develop mentors.

• The greatest fault,
to be aware of none.

• The greatest truth,
we reap what we sow.

• The most expensive indulgence,
self-pity.

• The greatest deceiver,
one who deceives self.

• The best habit,
making good on all commitments.

• The best teacher,
one who brings out the best in you.

• The saddest feeling,
feeling envious of another's success.

• The greatest thing in the world,
love - love of family, home, friends, associates, company and country.

And here are some definitions taken from the backs of business cards and meeting notes we've accumulated along the way.

• The greatest handicap,
egoism.

• The greatest victory,
victory over self.

• The greatest job,
being needed and appreciated.

• The greatest gamble,
substituting hope for facts.

• The strongest competitive edge,
a high level of energy.

• The most effective habit,
time management.

• The greatest guarantee of success,
honest intelligent effort.

• The best action,
keeping the mind clear and judgment good.

• The greatest selling strategy,
speaking as one who has authority.

• The greatest waste,
the vast reservoir of talents and abilities most of us possess but never quite get around to using.

Apakah Anda Termasuk Teman Sejati ???

Teman sejati? Apakah teman sejati itu?
Saya yakin anda pasti mempunyai teman. Tapi dari sedikit ato banyaknya teman anda, apakah anda tau mana yang benar-benar teman sejati anda dan mana yang bukan?

Sahabat saya pernah berkata bahwa teman itu sejatinya adalah dua orang yang "saling memanfaatkan". Setelah saya pikir-pikir bener juga ya, ada kalanya saya membutuhkan dia dan ada kalanya dia juga membutuhkan saya. Jadi kita ngga boleh egois dengan selalu minta bantuan dari dia tapi kalo dia meminta bantuan kita ngga mau membantu dia dengan alesan bermacem-macem. Menurut saya kalo ada teman saya yang kayak gitu, saya pribadi lebih memilih keep contact seadanya aja, karena teman seperti itu yang akan selalu merepotkan anda dan di saat anda butuh belum tentu dia available buat anda (tapi kalo anda termasuk orang yang suka membantu tanpa pamrih ya monggo silahkan berteman dengan teman yang seperti itu).

Sayangnya, sekarang banyak juga lho orang yang seperti itu, paling parah sih kalo orang tersebut suka meminta bantuan kita tapi ngga pernah mengucapkan terima kasih ato ngga tau diri, intinya minta mulu tapi ngga pernah ngasih sama sekali.

Beda case'nya kalo kita lagi ndeketin orang demi bisnis kita, misal deketin calon klien kita dan beda case'nya lagi kalo ndeketin aparat ato orang pemerintahan. Denger-denger dari orang yang uda bekerja, pengusaha yang deket sama aparat ato pemerintahan biasanya memberikan uang ato komisi ato buah tangan ato apa lah istilahnya macem-macem biar usahanya lancar.
Dan yang paling parah sih bea cukai katanya, kalo lagi inspeksi ke pabrik ato perusahaan-perusahaan biasanya minta "oleh-oleh" yaitu produk dari perusahaan yang didatengi tersebut.

Well, itu sih kata dari orang-orang yang uda bekerja ya, saya ngga tau bener apa ngga. Mungkin anda bisa tanya ke teman ato sodara anda yang bekerja di pabrik ato perusahaan.

Nah, balik lagi ke urusan pertemanan... sekarang anda uda mulai bisa terbayang kan teman-teman anda mana yang termasuk teman sejati dan mana yang bukan. Selanjutnya terserah anda! :-)